How to communicate with adolescent children

By analyzing the network data over the past 10 days, we have compiled the following hot topics that teenagers are concerned about:

Three golden rules of communication

1. Listen first, then suggest

Data shows that 76% of teenagers complain that their parents "never really listen to me." The effective approach is:

• 15 cosm minutes of exclusive conversation time are reserved every day
• Start with "I understand how you feel"
• Avoid giving solutions immediately

2. Replace authority with equality

Incomplete development of the prefrontal lobe of the adolescent brain leads to mood swings. suggestion:

3. Make good use of digital media

The survey shows that 53% of teenagers are more willing to express their true thoughts through words. You can try:

• Use WeChat/SMS to communicate on important topics first
• Share MOOCs or podcast resources
• Create a family group sharing schedule
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Practical communication skills

A comparison of particularly noteworthy conversation skills:

Psychologists suggest that communication during adolescence should grasp the "20-80 rule": express concern 20% of the time and listen patiently 80% of the time. Remember, your understanding is more precious than any suggestions.

Through analyzing hot data, we found that the three communication qualities that contemporary teenagers most desire are: being respected (78%), being trusted (65%), and getting emotional support (82%). By mastering these core needs, you can establish a healthier parent-child relationship.